Tuesday, November 29, 2022

ENTERING ADVENT: patience, impatience, and the present - a remote retreat

Here we are

Advent
, the beginning of the Christian year and the season leading up to Christmas, is full of paradoxes. It is a gentle season of waiting, but a season of prophetic warnings and invitations. It looks toward new beginnings and also toward the end of time. It is, as I have often said and as I preached on the first Sunday of Advent, both a time to enter God's patience and a time to enter God's impatience. To put it more casually, it can really mess with our sense of time.

Yet here we are, at the start of the season, with all this --and preparations for celebration of the birth of Jesus-- swirling around us and inside us, and in the readings appointed for the season, for those who use a lectionary.

Perhaps the most important thing we can do as we step into Advent --or as we wonder whether and how to enter the season-- is to make space, and time, to do so mindfully. To live Advent with care, in the present.

(c) Jane Redmont 2016

The retreat

Our "Entering Advent" retreat is a two-hour experience on Zoom, with time and space for quiet, music, gazing at visual art, and personal reflection and prayer.

It can serve as an oasis in this already busy holiday season of the secular world, or as a beginning of your extended Advent practice with some resources, guideposts, and practices - or both.

I am offering the retreat twice (with a third time possible upon request) to accommodate your varied schedules and time zones.

Wednesday evening, November 30, 2022 at 7:00 pm Eastern Time (4:00 pm Pacific Time)

        If there are sufficient requests, Wednesday evening, November         30 at 9:30 pm Eastern (6:30 Pacific) for you night owls of the East             Coast, early evening for you folks of the Western time zones.

Thursday morning, December 1, 2022 at 10:30 am Eastern Time (7:30 am Pacific for you early birds out there).

The retreat lasts for two hours.


At the end of the retreat, I'll also send you off with a few suggestions of Advent practices, which I'll have on a page that I can e-mail you as well as show on Zoom at the end of our time together.

Registration

The regular fee for the retreat is $30. If you can't afford this, a lower rate is available. If you are seriously broke, write me to request a freebie. If your resources are more abundant, a benefactor rate is available too.

Registration and payment are here:

Entering Advent 2022 - pick one rate
Make sure you pick a time!

 

Zoom and your favorite device

Our retreat will be in real time, on Zoom, so you'll need a computer or tablet.
The larger the screen, the better: while you can use Zoom on your smartphone, technically speaking, I don't recommend it because you won't see the images (both other participants' faces and the visual art I will share) as well as you would on a larger screen, and also because your fellow participants run the risk of seeing your face bounce around if your phone is unstable, which can be a distraction on a retreat meant to offer some slowness and stability.
I'll send out a Zoom link and instructions once you have registered. If you haven't used Zoom before, I'll be glad to help you ahead of time.

A Zoom retreat really can happen! I've led many such retreats in a variety of formats.

Questions? Concerns?

Please feel welcome to e-mail me here.

Note:

Because I am going on an extended family visit during the winter holidays, there will be no long blog-based Advent retreat this year. 

I am, however, already planning a long retreat for Lent, "Re-membering Our Lives." Publicity and registration for Lenten retreat offerings will be available by the end of January.



Sunday, November 27, 2022

We're working on an update.

This blog-masquerading-as-a-website is a little behind the times. 

Thanks for your patience as we update it.

Wednesday, March 16, 2022

Meditations with Howard Thurman: an evening Zoom retreat - March 17, 2022 (9:30 p.m. Eastern / 6:30 p.m. Pacific)

Longing for some reflective time in your busy life?  
                            Interested in (re-)discovering the work of a wise guide? 
Want a shorter Zoom retreat rather than a longer blog-based retreat?
                            Needing and hoping for spiritual support in this season of Lent?

Join us for an evening of 

Meditations with Howard Thurman

Note the change in date and time!

For the convenience of people across time zones,
this two-hour evening retreat is now scheduled for

 Thursday, March 17, 2022

at 6:30 p.m. Pacific Time / 7:30 Mountain Time / 
8:30 Central Time / 9:30 p.m. Eastern Time 
(hello, East Coast night owls!)

 

Howard Thurman (1899-1981), a philosopher, educator, theologian, and pastor, was an African American born in the segregated South during the Jim Crow era. Nourished by the rich traditions of the Black Church and ordained as a Baptist minister, he was deeply influenced by Quaker thought, especially the mysticism and nonviolence of Rufus Jones. He was also a pioneer in interreligious understanding. His writings --books, prayers, meditations, and sermons-- are rooted in Christianity yet accessible and pertinent to people whose wisdom path is "spiritual but not religious."

Howard Thurman exercised a deep influence on some of the Civil Rights Movement's leaders, including Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. He traveled to India to meet Gandhi in the 1930s with the first group of African Americans to do so. Thurman served as the first Black Dean of Marsh Chapel, the university chapel at Boston University, and founded the Church for the Fellowship of All Peoples, a multicultural, multiracial, and interfaith congregation in San Francisco which is still in existence today. Thurman's book Jesus and the Disinherited (1949) predated Black liberation theology by a generation.

We will spend our two hours listening to selected reflections by Howard Thurman, pondering them in meditative silence, sharing some of our responses in conversation, and enjoying some related images and music.

There is a sliding scale for the retreat fee, as you will see below. 

If the "hardship rate" is too high for you, please write me and we will arrange for a partial or full scholarship. If you can afford the "benefactor rate," your fees will help make scholarships possible.

Register here:
 

Thurman Zoom retreat - pick one rate
 
 
 We have also adjusted the schedule of our other Lenten retreats. 
See [here - link coming later today].

Tuesday, March 1, 2022

ONLINE RETREATS, LENT 2022: several formats, different lengths. Ponder and choose.


Welcome to Lent 2022. We are offering several online retreats, some long, some short, in two different formats:

 1. on a blog (as we have offered in the past):
No appointment needed: read, gaze, listen, and practice on your own time; resources are posted regularly to mark a rhythm and offer progression and order, but you may pick the hour of day or night and the pace at which you participate; any conversation is in writing -- or you may remain anonymous.
 
 2. on Zoom (as we began offering last year)
Weekly (or in some cases, one-time-only) gathering on Zoom, at an appointed date and time; in real time; any conversation is in person and with your face (or Zoom profile) showing.
 
Both formats share verbal, visual, and sometimes musical resources as well as prayer and invitations to spiritual practice. Both encourage us to take quiet time and time apart. 

Each format has different advantages. One is not "better" than the other. It's more a question of what suits your temperament, your schedule, the type of help you need to keep commitments, and your way of receiving and integrating verbal and visual resources.
 
Here's the list of retreat titles and dates.
 
Click on each title 
for a detailed description and registration information.


Retreats lasting all of Lent:  
 
            March 6*-April 16
            Blog-based, continuous, on your own schedule.
 
 March 6*-April 16 
 Offered in two formats (pick one): 1) blog-based and continuous or 
2) Zoom-based, with six weekly 90-minute or two-hour sessions.
 
* You're welcome to start either retreat any time in the first week of Lent, March 6-12!
 
Nine-day ("novena") retreats 
focused on the life and work of one person (blog-based):

March 9-17
March 22-30
 
April 1-9
 Choose one, or attend two or all three of them.

One-evening retreats inspired by the same three people 
on Zoom
 
Thursday, March 10
 
Thursday, March 24
 
Thursday, April 7

 
One-evening retreats
(on Zoom)


Offered twice: 
1) Tuesday, March 15, early evening Eastern Time (late afternoon Pacific Time)
2) Tuesday, April 5,  late evening (hello, night owls!) Eastern Time (early evening Pacific Time)

Sliding scale fees offered for all retreats.

DESERT JOURNEY, DAILY BREAD: Perspectives on FOOD AND FASTING IN LENT. Offered in two formats: your choice, blog or Zoom.

Note: This Lent, we offer TWO kinds of online retreats:
 
 1. on a blog (as we have offered in the past):
No appointment needed: read, gaze, listen, and practice on your own time; resources are posted regularly to mark a rhythm and offer progression and order, but you may pick the hour of day or night and the pace at which you participate; any conversation is in writing -- or you may remain anonymous.
 
 2. on Zoom (as we began offering last year):
Weekly (or in some cases, one-time-only) gathering on Zoom, at an appointed date and time; in real time; any conversation is in person and with your face (or Zoom profile) showing.

                                                 The full list of our Lent 2022 online retreats is here.
 
Desert Journey, Daily Bread:
 
Perspectives 
Ancient and New 
on
 Food and Fasting
in Lent

an online retreat
 
(choose either blog-based or Zoom-based)

Lent and Holy Week

March 6* to April 16, 2022 (blog-based)
 
* You're welcome to start the retreat any time in the first week of Lent, March 6-12!
 
 or
Monday evenings March 7, 14, 21, 28 & April 4, 11
(Zoom-based)


Jane Redmont

The retreat

Desert Journey, Daily Bread is an online retreat to deepen Lenten prayer and practice in the areas of food and fasting.

In the Desert Journey, Daily Bread retreat, we will journey through the Christian season of Lent, from Ash Wednesday to Easter Sunday, with gentle guidance, wisdom from biblical, historical, and contemporary sources, and opportunities for prayer and practice.
Our purpose is not to make a fetish out of either food or fasting; they are part of a larger life of faith and practice, of the full life of the body, and of the Lenten journey. Fasting and food are a lens through which we can live the season of Lent, which itself is a path to attune us more closely to God, to God's world, to ourselves, and to our neighbors --and to prepare to celebrate the Resurrection.
The retreat is a call to simplicity, mindfulness, and holiness.

It is meant to be deeply personal, but also to invite us into environmental, contextual, and justice perspectives on food and fasting.


Like the season of Lent itself, it invites us to repentance and conversion, but also to joy.
Each week of Desert Journey, Daily Bread will have a theme related both to the topic of the retreat and to one or more of the biblical lectionary readings for the Sunday that  begins the week.
This is an ecumenical retreat in the Western Christian tradition, though there will be some references to Orthodox (a.k.a. Eastern) Christian Lenten practices. Though your friendly retreat leader, an Episcopal/Anglican Christian, worships in a tradition using the Revised Common Lectionary, she will also take into account the Roman Catholic Sunday lectionary. We also have much to learn from sister religious traditions (Judaism, Islam) which have practices of fasting and an active spirituality of food in many cultural settings.
Each week of Desert Journey, Daily Bread retreat will feature:
* short readings for our reflection;
* spiritual exercises (which will involve the whole person, body, mind, heart, and spirit, as do all Lenten practices) especially those involving or related to eating, fasting, and food;
* prayers;
* images to contemplate; and
* reminders of the broader context of the Lenten journey in which we practice our praying, eating, fasting, simple living, almsgiving, and work toward the kin-dom of God. Participants can use all of these according to their own context and daily life.
In the blog version of the retreat, there will be new material three times a week:

1. Saturday evening (in anticipation of Sunday):

Reflection on the theme for the week in conjunction with one or more of the Sunday lectionary readings.
2. Tuesday noontime:
The spirituality of food in Lent: wisdom, queries, and spiritual practices related to food, water, and eating.
3. Thursday evening (in anticipation of Friday):
Friday is traditionally a penitential day and some Christian traditions focus their Lenten fasting in particular ways on Friday. Accordingly, our Thursday night reflection will prepare us for the greater simplicity of Fridays in Lent.
It will also offer us wisdom and support in whatever fasting practices we have chosen, whether they involve fasting from food or fasting in other ways (from television, from Twitter, from harmful speech, from impulse buying, from online arguments).

In the Zoom version of the retreat, there will be a weekly combination of these same themes and materials --though adapted in quantity and form to fit the 90-minute weekly format.

Reminder: We are offering two versions (formats) of this retreat:

Pick one or the other; there is no hybrid option.
Each format has different advantages. 
One is not "better" than the other. 
It's more a question of 
what suits your temperament, your schedule, 
and your way of receiving and integrating verbal and visual resources.

 A note on retreat fees:

Easy registration and payment via PayPal secure link, 
which takes credit and debit cards in addition to PayPal.
You don't have to have your own PayPal account to use this online payment method. (If you prefer to pay by Venmo or check, please e-mail me.)
Discounts are available for those in financial hardship.

(If even the "hardship rate" is too high for you, please e-mail me about scholarship need.)
The benefactor rate helps offset costs and makes scholarship aid possible.

Payment is non-refundable and due upon registration.

 An online retreat? How does that work?

1) Blog-based version:

* At home, on a break at work, in a coffee shop, on vacation, in your daily life: read, reflect, meditate, and pray with the retreat materials in a way that suits your schedule.

* Spiritual refreshment, nurture, and challenge.

* You'll need 20 minutes a day of focused time and a computer or tablet with internet access.

* The retreat offers resources (the quotes, spiritual exercises, and prayers mentioned above, with some images as well to nourish you visually) online on a blog. More specifically, a closed blog.

* What's a closed blog? It's a blog like this, but it is not public: it is open only to those whom the blog owner-administrator (that's me) has signed in. In other words, it is not open to anybody wandering around the internet. It is not "searchable": random web surfers will not be able to view either the blog or our conversations in the comments.

* The blog-based retreat is more private and more leisurely, and in addition to receiving (on the blog) materials on three days of each week, you will have access to these materials throughout all of Lent and Holy Week; for instance, if you want or need to return to one of the first week's resources during the third week, you will be able to do so.

* Once you register for the retreat, I will send instructions for the one-time-only sign-in mechanism. After that, the retreat blog will always recognize you.

For the blog-based retreat, please register here:

Retreat fees (choose one)


2) Zoom-based version:

* Spiritual refreshment, nurture, and challenge at a specific time each week.

* You'll need a computer or tablet with internet access. You do not have to to have a personal Zoom account.
 
* Every Monday evening (7:30-9:00 p.m. Eastern Time) in Lent (March 7 through April 11) the 90-minute Zoom session me will offer an adapted,  "live" version of the resources mentioned above: quotations, spiritual exercises, and prayers, with some images as well to nourish you visually, a bit of music, and times of shared silence. 
 
* The six-week retreat will follow the one-theme-per-week design and the reference to the week's Sunday lectionary readings.

* This will be an opportunity to touch base with me, the retreat facilitator, and with your fellow retreats "in real time." On the other hand, if you miss a week, there will not be a way to catch up.

 * Once you register for the retreat, I will send you the Zoom link, which will be valid for all six Mondays of the retreat. 

For the Zoom-based retreat, please register here:

Retreat fees (choose one)
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Reminder: The full list of our Lent 2022 online offerings 
(both blog-based  and Zoom-based) is here.

WATER IN THE WILDNERNESS: LONGING AND RENEWAL IN LENT - an online retreat

Note: This Lent, we offer TWO kinds of online retreats:

  1. on a blog (as we have offered in the past):
No appointment needed: read, gaze, listen, and practice on your own time; resources are posted regularly to mark a rhythm and offer progression and order, but you may pick the hour of day or night and the pace at which you participate; any conversation is in writing -- or you may remain anonymous.
 
 2. on Zoom (as we began offering last year):
Weekly (or in some cases, one-time-only) gathering on Zoom, at an appointed date and time; in real time; any conversation is in person and with your face (or Zoom profile) showing.

                                                 The full list of our Lent 2022 online retreats is here.
 
 Water in the Wilderness:

Longing and Renewal in Lent

an online (blog-based) retreat

March 5*-April 16, 2022


* You're welcome to start the retreat any time in the first week of Lent, March 6-12!

Mission Farm, Killington, VT (c) Jane Redmont 2013

The retreat

Lenten retreats often invite us to withdraw into the wilderness. But two years into the COVID pandemic, we may feel that we have already been in a kind of wilderness! 

Still, it is helpful to take some mindful, protected time apart in this season, especially when we are in need of refreshment and renewal. 

This retreat will name and ponder our personal and communal experiences of wilderness and remember some of the wanderings and of our spiritual ancestors. (Forty years in the desert, anyone?)

The retreat will also --especially-- reflect on and pray with biblical and other images of water in the wilderness --verbal and visual. Lent and its practices, even those involving repentance, is for the sake of life. It prepares us to live as Resurrection people.

Come to this retreat as a time of refreshment to remember with your retreat companions God's nourishing power, the enlivening presence of the Holy Spirit, and Jesus Christ, who speaks of himself in the Gospel of John as the living water. Bring your wanderings and wonderings.  

Lent sometimes feels like a lesson in longing. It it also a time of kindling memory. But it is, perhaps even more, a time to root ourselves in the present moment. It is a time to deepen our compassion for the world and its creatures, but also our compassion for ourselves. 

Each week of  retreat will feature:

* short readings for our reflection, including but not limited to biblical reflections;
* prayers;
* images to contemplate;
* a little music;
* spiritual exercises (which will involve the whole person, body, mind, heart, and spirit, as do all Lenten practices) and
* reminders of the broader context of the Lenten journey 
 
 Participants can use these resources according to their own context and daily life.

I will post new material to the retreat blog three times a week:
1. Saturday evening, in anticipation of each Sunday in Lent.
2. Wednesday
3. Friday

A note on retreat fees:

Easy registration and payment via PayPal secure link, 
which takes credit and debit cards in addition to PayPal.
You don't have to have your own PayPal account to use this online payment method. (If you prefer to pay by Venmo or check, please e-mail me.)
Discounts are available for those in financial hardship.
(If even the "hardship rate" is too high for you, please e-mail me about scholarship need.)
The benefactor rate helps offset costs and makes scholarship aid possible.
Payment is non-refundable and due upon registration. 
 
  An online retreat? How does that work?

* At home, on a break at work, in a coffee shop, on vacation, in your daily life: read, reflect, meditate, and pray with the retreat materials in a way that suits your schedule.

* You'll need 20 minutes a day of focused time and a computer or tablet with internet access.

* The retreat offers resources (the quotes, spiritual exercises, and prayers mentioned above, with some images as well to nourish you visually and some melodies to speak to your heart and soul) online on a blog. More specifically, a closed blog.

* What's a closed blog? It's a blog like this, but it is not public: it is open only to those whom the blog owner-administrator (that's me) has signed in. In other words, it is not open to anybody wandering around the internet. It is not "searchable": random web surfers will not be able to view either the blog or our conversations in the comments.

* In addition to receiving materials on (at least) three days of each week on the retreat blog, you will have access to these materials throughout all of Lent and Holy Week; for instance, if you want or need to return to one of the first week's resources during the third or fourth week, you will be able to do so. There is a structure to offer you a steady rhythm, but you can also make the retreat your own. That's the beauty of a blog-based retreat. 

* You can also choose whether to converse with your companions on the retreat (and with your friendly retreat leader) via the comments section of individual blogposts or whether to remain silent and anonymous. Again, do what works for your temperament and your needs.

* Once you register for the retreat, I will send instructions for the one-time-only sign-in mechanism. After that, the retreat blog will always recognize you.
 

Register here:


Retreat fees (choose one)

Note: I am also offering a simpler, abridged one-evening Zoom version of this retreat on two separate evenings, March 15 and April 5. Details and registration for those are here.

 Reminder: The full list of our Lent 2022 online offerings 
(both blog-based and Zoom-based) is here.

"WATER IN THE WILDERNESS" retreat: the one-evening Zoom version, offered twice

 Note: This Lent, we offer TWO kinds of online retreats:

  1. on a blog (as we have offered in the past):
No appointment needed: read, gaze, listen, and practice on your own time; resources are posted regularly to mark a rhythm and offer progression and order, but you may pick the hour of day or night and the pace at which you participate; any conversation is in writing -- or you may remain anonymous.
 
 2. on Zoom (as we began offering last year):
Weekly (or in some cases, one-time-only) gathering on Zoom, at an appointed date and time; in real time; any conversation is in person and with your face (or Zoom profile) showing.

                                                 The full list of our Lent 2022 online retreats is here.
 
Water in the Wilderness:

Longing and Renewal in Lent

an evening Zoom retreat, offered twice:

Tuesday, March 15, 8:30-10:30 Eastern Time

Tuesday, April 5, 7:00-9:00 p.m. Eastern Time

 
Mission Farm, Killington, VT (c) Jane Redmont 2013

Lenten retreats often invite us to withdraw into the wilderness. But two years into the COVID pandemic, we may feel that we have already been in a kind of wilderness! 

This retreat will name and ponder our personal and communal experiences of wilderness and remember some of the wanderings and of our spiritual ancestors. (Forty years in the desert, anyone?)

The retreat will also --especially-- reflect on and pray with biblical and other images of water in the wilderness --verbal and visual. Lent and its practices, even those involving repentance, is for the sake of life. It prepares us to live as Resurrection people.

Come to this retreat as a time of refreshment to remember with your retreat companions God's nourishing power, the enlivening presence of the Holy Spirit, and Jesus Christ, who speaks of himself in the Gospel of John as the living water. Bring your wanderings and wonderings. 

 

Tuesday, March 15, 2022, 8:30-10:30 p.m. Eastern Time
(hello, East Coast night owls and Midwest, Mountain, and West Coast earlier birds)

Register here for March 15:

Water in the Wilderness early Zoom - pick one rate


Tuesday, April 5, 2022, 7:00-9:00 Eastern Time

Register here for April 5:

Water in the Wilderness early Zoom - pick one rate
 
 
 Note: I am also offering a Lent-long, blog-based retreat on the same theme. Details and registration are here.
 Reminder: The full list of our Lent 2022 online offerings 
(both blog-based and Zoom-based) is here.